My point is not that you cant find compassion and communitarian values on the Net. You can. But you can find them just as well, and better, in a real community. One phenomenon I encountered on the Internet was that people would put words like grin or smile or hug in parentheses in a note. Its a code meaning cyberhugs, cybersmiles, cyberkisses. But at bottom, that cyberkiss is not the same thing as a real kiss. At bottom, that cyberhug is not going to do the same thing. Theres a big difference.

Mark Slouka, author of War of the Worlds: Cyberspace and the Hi-Tech Assault on Reality, in Harpers Magazine, August 1995
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